You’ve been praying for love… but choosing from your wounds. And today we’re talking about the exact reason God will NOT bless the relationship that was built on your trauma identity — not your God-given identity.

In this episode, you’re going to learn:

✨ Why God blocks certain relationships Even when you prayed for them. Even when you loved him. Even when you thought he was “the one.”

✨ How trauma identity chooses partners that contradict your prayers Wounds crave familiarity, not safety — and God is trying to pull you into truth, not trauma.

✨ How to recognize when God is protecting you Confusion, inconsistency, anxiety, emotional crumbs — they’re not from Him.

✨ What God WILL bless Relationships rooted in identity, peace, healing, and alignment with His Word.

✨ 3 Key Scriptures in this episode: • Psalm 127:1 – Unless the Lord builds it… it won’t stand • 1 Peter 2:9 – You are chosen, royal, His special possession • Romans 12:2 – Be transformed by renewing your mind

✨ How the Holy Spirit heals what self-help can’t If you’ve accepted Jesus as your Savior, you do not heal alone. You heal with the power of God inside you.

✨ 4 practical steps to shift from trauma identity to God identity So you can finally choose love from worthiness — not wounds.

If you’re ready to break the patterns that keep picking for you, that’s exactly what I walk women through inside Rewritten and The Healing Room. Links are in the show notes.

You are loved. You are chosen. You were never meant to settle for breadcrumbs.

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