In this vulnerable and unfiltered episode of Coursen’s Corner, intimacy coach and former sex worker Coral Osborne joins host Spencer Coursen for a deep dive into the complex truths behind modern relationships, sexual shame, digital disconnection, and the shifting roles of masculinity and femininity.

From breaking down misconceptions about sex work to explaining why dating apps and emotional suppression are more damaging than porn, Coral delivers raw, powerful insight into what’s really causing modern intimacy to fracture.

They discuss the “orgasm gap,” male vulnerability, trauma, emotional safety, and how women and men often seek connection in opposing ways, but with the same desire at heart. Whether you're exploring your own identity, healing from emotional wounds, or just trying to figure out dating in the digital age — this episode is a must-listen.

Timestamps:

- [0:00:00 - 0:05:00] – Coral’s childhood, music industry roots & intro to intimacy

- [0:05:00 - 0:10:01] – Moving to LA, starting a business, and falling into sex work

- [0:10:01 - 0:15:02] – The truth about sex work: shame, trauma, and intimacy

- [0:15:02 - 0:20:02] – Why men seek sex workers: validation, rejection, loneliness

- [0:20:02 - 0:25:03] – Feminine vs. masculine intimacy & emotional gatekeeping

- [0:25:03 - 0:30:04] – Pornhub trends: real couple sex, mindful sex & Gen Z habits

- [0:30:04 - 0:35:05] – Dating apps, video games & the real issue with disconnection

- [0:35:05 - 0:40:05] – Authenticity vs. performance & the “weaponizing” of vulnerability

- [0:40:05 - 0:45:06] – Coaching men vs. women & gender differences in self-work

- [0:45:06 - 0:50:07] – Emotional safety, commitment, and romantic misalignment

- [0:50:07 - 0:55:08] – Orgasm gap, sexual communication & casual sex myths

- [0:55:08 - 1:00:08] – Cheap dopamine, soul connection, and integrity in intimacy

- [1:00:08 - 1:05:09] – Casual sex as energetic depletion & redefining “winning”

- [1:05:09 - 1:10:10] – Self-worth, dating misalignment & sexual values

- [1:10:10 - 1:15:11] – Heartgasms, trust, and how magnificent sex rewires intimacy

Links & Resources:

Podcast Guest Submission Form: https://www.spencercoursen.com/guest-submission-form-podcast

Follow Coral on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunrealcoralosborne/?hl=en

Visit Coral's Website: https://www.coralosborne.com/

Sexual Health Alliance: https://sexualhealthalliance.com/

Coral's Book Recs About Sexuality and Intimacy: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/177547688-coral-osborne

Follow Spencer on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/s.coursen/?hl=en

Purchase "The Safety Trap" by Spencer Coursen: https://a.co/d/3KXG4y2

Connect With Coursen Security Group: https://www.coursensecuritygroup.com/