『28 | HEALING AS A CHILD FROM AN AFFAIR AND OWNING YOUR IDENTITY CONFIDENTLY』のカバーアート

28 | HEALING AS A CHILD FROM AN AFFAIR AND OWNING YOUR IDENTITY CONFIDENTLY

28 | HEALING AS A CHILD FROM AN AFFAIR AND OWNING YOUR IDENTITY CONFIDENTLY

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 Welcome to Emotional Healing for Christian Women. Thank You! For listening ⁠I’m Marvel C. Adeyemi⁠, a licensed Psychotherapist and Faith -Based Coach. Imagine waking up without the weight of shame, fear, and loneliness. Imagine finally feeling worthy, confident, and at peace — and doing it with God by your side. That's the healing we begin together Perhaps you’re struggling with low self-worth, rejection, persistent anxiety, spiritual confusion, neglect, abandonment, or feeling disconnected from your purpose… If you're afraid of repeating painful patterns in parenting or relationships… If your past still triggers you — please know that healing is possible. Through biblical lens, I’ll help you rebuild self-worth, trust, peace and clarity — so you can feel empowered, beautiful, and confident. WHAT NEXT? ✅ Download my ⁠free resources⁠ for guidance and healing from past wounds and finding clarity and purpose. ✅ Order my new book, Beyond the Hurt. ⁠E-book ⁠ and ⁠Paper back⁠ 📌Work with me 1:1: book a session: ⁠Book Here⁠ ✅Please leave a comment/review, subscribe/follow and share. ✅ Join my private ⁠face book group ⁠ ✅ Book a 1:1 Coaching Call if you’re ready to dive deeper into your healing journey. ⁠https://marveladeyemi.com.au/⁠ ✅ Send me an⁠ email⁠ 📢Disclaimer: I share content from my reflections for educational purpose only and should not replace professional therapy. If you need immediate support, please reach out to a licensed mental health professional. TRANSCRIPT Host: Today, we're diving into a deeply personal and often misunderstood path: healing as an "affair-child." This is a topic that touches the very core of identity, and if this resonates with you, know that you are seen, loved, and incredibly brave. We're going to explore four powerful signs that you are truly healing and stepping into the beautiful purpose God has for you. (0:45) Sign 1: You've Processed Your Origin Story and Anchored Your Identity in Christ The first profound sign you are healing is when you've processed and truly forgiven the manner in which you were informed about your maternity or paternity. For many, this revelation comes as a rude shock, a seismic shift in understanding your past. But as you heal, you begin to normalize your birth. You recognize that it truly doesn't matter how you arrived on this earth; your fundamental identity is anchored firmly in Christ. You understand that if God allowed you to be here, if He brought you through any initial pain or confusion, and you are still here – sane, alive, and thriving – surely there is a divine purpose for your pain. Your existence is not a mistake; it is part of God's perfect plan. This shift from shock to acceptance, from questioning your origin to affirming your divine identity, is a beautiful mark of emotional healing for Christian women. (2:15) Sign 2: You've Shifted from Justifying Others to Focusing on Your Own Healing Secondly, you know you are healing when you've stopped justifying either your mother or father for the affair that led to your birth. This is a powerful pivot. You've shifted from sympathy for their choices to a laser-like focus on yourself, your feelings, and your body. This means you are actively releasing the shame, guilt, and rejection that may have been associated with your birth story. Instead of carrying their burden, you are now squarely focused on your healing. This isn't about blaming; it's about acknowledging the impact on you and choosing to nurture your own well-being. This step is crucial for overcoming family of origin trauma and reclaiming your emotional landscape. (3:45) Sign 3: You've Accepted Your Story and Crafted Your Own Narrative The third sign of profound healing is when you have accepted that you are an "affair-child" and you have become genuinely comfortable with it. In fact, you've taken ownership and created your own empowering narrative around your identity. You realize that you are not responsible for the circumstances of your birth, and therefore, you've completely released any form of guilt associated with it. You now have the agency and wisdom to choose which family members, siblings, or extended families you want to associate with. This isn't about cutting people off out of anger, but about wisely discerning who contributes to your peace and who respects your boundaries. You are defining your own tribe, rooted in love and acceptance, rather than obligation or unhealed wounds. This is true self-worth in action. (5:15) Sign 4: You've Quit Blaming and Are Fiercely Engaged in Your Purpose Finally, a powerful indicator of deep healing is that you have quit blaming your parents, recognizing that their relationship and choices are not your responsibility. You understand that your energy is better spent focusing on your own growth and flourishing. Instead, you are now keenly engaged in your divine purpose. You recognize, like biblical ...
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